Matchmaking - a common practice among folks in the olden days. Something which u think is non- existent in these modern age 'cept for those commercialised ones of coz. Well, let me tell u - it does still EXIST. I guess it basically stems from parents who are quite concerned that their children are of the marriageable age but have not found their life partner yet. Guess their intent are kind, as they embark on a journey to introduce several "eligible" candidates to their children, hoping that one will be the right one.

I guess this issue came abt coz I was chatting abt it with a friend 1 day. Both of us dun really like being matchmade. As I talk abt the issue, it brought me back to those instances where I was asked to be "friends" with some pple.

First, there was MOON sum years back. Was the first time i was approached. Shocked me rigid till I can't sleep the whole nite. Guess it wasn't the time yet coz I was not prepared.

Mr HURRICANE came next. Bad timing tho coz I was interested in another guy at that time. Once I am fixed, I will never divert sumwhere else. That's the bad thing abt me. So guess not interested....

Then came SUPERFOUR..... My heart was more open this time but I guess I was being cautious so wanted to be friends first. But I dun noe - when u r being asked to do it n when u really want to do it, it's kinda different. Juz when u tght, it went well.... It's not as what u think. Pretended not to bother but actually I did....Hurt real bad...

Latest, someone I knew personally. C what happens but it's a bit risky coz close relations are involved.... I dun want it to break....

It's all a matter of finding the right one actually. Dun really wanna do it again. Hopefully will find 1 on my own without any help.........